why do i still love her?

oh my gosh.

i'm a girl, but like the same thing happened to me (only vice versa obviously)

it sucks

i know

its the most horrible feeling in the WORLD

but if its meant to be, she will realize whats wrong with the situation

and if its not meant to be...

you will get over her.

i know it probably seems like you won't

but you will

i promise

GOOD LUCK

because u just do... this will take some time for you to get over... monthes even years if u 2 had a very good relationship and were together 4 a while then it will take a long time u just have to live with it for the time being and go have some fun. i try 2 tell my ex the same cuz he's still in love with me...

Because it's only been 2 months. Give it time. Are you sure you love HER? Or the idea of her? Sometimes we put our partners on a pedastal, think about your relationship. What are the things you love about her? Things that are uniquely her, or things that you can find being with anyone such as companionship, having a lover, etc?

Bottom line, give it time.

Good luck, feel better.

You love her because you care about her and the break up is still pretty fresh. When you care so much for someone and things are happening that you do not understand it makes it harder to put that person out of your head.

Hang in there, you will be ok time heals.

you just have to let her go. there's nothing you can do but talk to her about what she's doing. if she doesn't want to talk just leave her alone, because it seems like she's no good. i don't know why you still love her, that's a question that everyone wants answered.

I know exactly how you feel. You just have to find someone else to focus on, at least that's what I do. Once you find someone else that you like or just some other people to hang out with, you'll forget about her.

Because love is one of those things you will love her until you move on, and my ex said to me love is eternal so you will always remember loving her etc. but you move on. i bet you had a special relationship with her.. why not tell her how you feel?

(this is mels friend btw)

love is one thing that never fades but we as humans can block it out. in your case you can't right now and its not your fault its just hard trying to cope with that person no longer in your life. give yourself time to cope and heal don't rush it but don't dwell on it either.

it's tough to lose someone you really liked or loved, and it could be that maybe you just love the idea of her. try talking to her, perhaps? or maybe just focus on someone else

you might be jealous of her or you just want her to yourself. maby you spent to much time with her and you are just stuck and can't believe the fact that you broke up with her. she might want you back too, but messing with your friends I don't understand that part.