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How can I let her down gently?
I met a girl and asked her out on a date. i got her number, but I was a bit drunk at the time. We went out for a drink and I ended up sleeping with her. We have sent tet messages since but she has asked me if I would like to go out again. I don't really want to as I am not really that physically atttracted to her. She is a nice person though.
How would you tell her that you weren't that interested in going out? I did tell her that I didn't want a relationship. I feel a bit bad, but we were two consenting adults. How can I word the text so that she doesn't fel too bad? I think she really likes me, but the feelings not mutual.
8 réponses
- T-halfLv 6il y a 1 décennie
Rather than being told from someone that I just slept with that he doesn't feel physically attracted to me, I'd prefer a lie.
Say you're getting back with an old girl friend or simply, "No, I don't want to go out again."
- il y a 1 décennie
If you are going to let her down gently you must do it slyly.
Try to talk formally, not colloquially.
Use synonyms that no one else would use.
Organize a real long speech with these formal and synonymic language.
At the end of your long and boring speech ask her "do you understand?"
I hope this helps a bit.
- il y a 1 décennie
tell her the truth, but dont dear john her (text)
. That's not fun for nebody.
- Anonymeil y a 1 décennie
There's no easy way to let anybody down.Just tell her direct.
- Anonymeil y a 1 décennie
tell her how you feel, don't lead her on, that would hurt her more in the end. just tell her you would like to be friends.
- Anonymeil y a 1 décennie
whatever you do, don't text her. that's a bit childish.
