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I have been accused on several occasions that I am too nice. How can someone be nice but not too nice?
My first wife left me because I would not tolerate her taking advantage of me anymore. I like someone else but she says I am a good friend; among other reasons beyond my control, that is why she would not go out with me. Why do some women make a big deal about this. I would love for a woman to be "too nice" to me.
7 réponses
- il y a 1 décennieRéponse favorite
Well, most people have at least a little mean streak in them. And a lot of people like to joke around and be sarcastic. And a fight here and there can make things more exciting. Girls probably find it hard to be themselves around you because they can't treat you like they do everyone else. They would feel bad. And...MAYBE girls think that you're a bit desperate if you're too nice to them. Like you have to try harder than all the other guys for some reason that they don't want to stick around to find out about.
- il y a 1 décennie
It is not just woman that make a big deal out of it. When some1 like the other more it creates an imbalance in any relationship. We men and women( I think) want to be wanted but if somebody like us to much the is almost a hint of desperation(no insult intended, I have been "too nice" also) and that can be off putting. You cant help what you feel but you have to accept that she does not feel the same...sorry. Lots more fish in the sea....but who want to go out with a fish. Do what you do but try not to over romanticize any relationship and just let it happen and learn from it but don't dwell if it happens again. Good luck
- TLE_MGRLv 5il y a 1 décennie
Sorry fella, but being called nice is going to stick with you. PULEEZE don't try to learn a tough guy routine or create some kind of edge.
Your best bet, if you don't want to stay a virgin, or only get laid once a year, is to find a girl who has already had her fill of gangster and abusive guys.
They actually want nice guys now, and many of them are HOT!!
Source(s) : http://www.collegeboardz.com/forums/ - Sick of F*ckwitsLv 4il y a 1 décennie
well, i understand where she is coming from. I dont know what it is. you'd think a girl would want a really nice guy; but i dont. Im attracted to assholes n love being told what to do and doing everything i can for them... Opposites attract?
- Cory WLv 4il y a 1 décennie
"too nice" is code for "too wimpish" don't give away all your power early in the relationship, be funny, add a little arrogant (key, a LITTLE) sometimes, and be confident, then soon the "too nice" stuff will dry up.
- dolores hLv 5il y a 1 décennie
Michael M,
Sometimes people try to hard to be so nce and it becomes obvious . I say just try to be yourself , I think that always works .
