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Did my friend reject me?
I asked her whether she would be up to grab some dinner together.
She replied:
“Ah ****! I would have said yes but I’ve already made dinner”
And then “You should have asked me earlier lol!”
I mean, if she had just sent me the first text without rescheduling, I would have taken it as a rejection, but I just don’t know... I feel that maybe the door is open?
What do you guys think?
7 réponses
- mintleeLv 4il y a 1 an
It's not a rejection, she sounds enthusiastic and interested but declined because of the short notice and lack of planning. Text back and say, "No problem, what about Tuesday night?"
- seedy historyLv 7il y a 1 an
That is not a "rejection". That is a "Not tonight". Definitely ask again and, next time, not at the last moment.
- Anonymeil y a 1 an
In my opinion, If she really was interested, she'd have put her stupid dinner in the fridge and gone with you!
- Anonymeil y a 1 an
Take it at face value. She told you she would've gone out with you but she already has plans.
- Anonymeil y a 1 an
When you ask for a date or meet up and the response is "I've already made other plans; I wish you'd asked me earlier" the message is "I'm not available on such short notice, but am hoping you'll extend another invitation, an invitation that gives me more advance notice."
- ?Lv 7il y a 1 an
The door is open of course. She couldn't leave her dinner untouched that she was cooking. Ask earlier in the day next time.
- Anonymeil y a 1 an
Ask your friend in the morning next time
