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Should I forgive my ex-good friend?
I have been worrying about this for a while. One of my good friends in middle school and I were good friends. I wouldn't say best friends, but we were close. We always hangout with each other in the 6th grade and our friendship was stable. In 7th grade, she changed. A LOT. She became acting weird, not around me, but weird. I was beginning to worry. In the summer of 2011, I invited her to my birthday parties and we had so much fun with her and my other good friends. Then, on her birthday, I asked her...
ME- "so, are you having a birthday" a
SHE- "yes."
ME-"who did you invite?"
SHE-"[NAMES]"
ME- "You didn't invited me?"
SHE-"No. I'm sorry :("
ME-"Why?"
SHE-"I could only invite only five of my closest friends"
I knew she lied because she posted pictures of her party and it was actually 7 [including her]
I was so hurt because I felt like I was being betrayed and I stopped talking to her. [FEW MONTHS LATER SHE UNFRIENDED ME ON FACEBOOK]
She said that everytime she talked to me, she said I sounded angry with her. I wasn't. I was just hurt.
Should I forgive her and never be friends again?
10 réponses
- Anonymeil y a 8 ansRéponse favorite
You should just move on. Obviously she doesn't want your friendship, not to be rude, and if she doesn't appreciate you, then she's not good enough for you!
There are millions of people on this planet, befriending a new one won't be that hard!
Good luck!
Source(s) : I've lost a lot of best friends and good friends, but I've gained lots more! - babyboomer1001Lv 7il y a 8 ans
If it were me, I'd be cool with her. She obviously regards you as just an acquaintance, someone she knows but not so close, at least not anymore. She doesn't want you as a close friend anymore. That is obvious so don't be nasty to her when you pass her in the hallway, just acknowledge her and walk on. Do not give her any more of your time. Make new friends and consider her a past friend.
- il y a 8 ans
I dont see any reason for YOU to forgive her, she sounds like the one with the problem and obviously doesnt care about you or your feelings. People grow apart when thy get older, let her go its time to make better friends
- il y a 8 ans
It's hard but sometimes friends just grow apart. She probably could have handles that better, but it wouldn't be any good of you remain angry with her. I would just not talk to her anymore
- Anonymeil y a 8 ans
It's always good to forgive, besides it's Ramadan (the month of forgiveness) but you should keep a distance.
- il y a 8 ans
Explain to her that you want to be her friend and talk it out with her. Talk about the problems you guys have and all of the fun times you've had.
- il y a 8 ans
In the relationship of friend as i know there doesn't exist the word sorry & thank you. so if anybody forgive the friend makes him great .
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