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Trying to avoid the element of suprise here?
You know how you may start really liking boys(in this case just one boy) around 7th grade? please don't tell me its wrong because im young,and say wait till im older. im fully aware that official relationships dont start until maybe college or later,but doesn'tdoesnt mean the time inbetween u wnt hav infatuations u cnt stop....anyways i am a rather mature twelve year old,and i hav strong feelings of like towards a boy in all my classes. but just as in the past i am terribly horrified at the thought that he may like some other girl.i guessed this myself. but hes kinda in the middle of being popular,and hes kinda lonely and shows no emotion. ive liked him for three years now,and im just worried that hes gonna end up with this particular stuid girl who really doesnt deserve hi,. im no being jealous,its just true. shes the kinda who goes around talking about how pretty she is and how many bfs shes had-u k how that goes. anyways ik i cnt stop him from dating her,if he even does,but how do i not be so crushed if this happens later? Because i dont want to cry myself to sleep at nite.-
please dont mention my spelling my keyboard is actin funny
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- NatLv 7il y a 9 ansRéponse favorite
It's natural to feel the way you do. Have you heard of unrequited love? Well it's all around us and most people experience it in their lifetimes. That's when you love someone, sometimes without knowing them. You fall for them, but they may not feel the same. In your situation, as in anything pertaining to love, either it happens, or it doesn't. Love usually comes when we least expect it. Sometimes you can be friends and it turns to love. The boy is going to be attracted to "his type", or the person who has the attributes that he's attracted to. You can't make it happen. He has to love you for who you are on many levels, not just physical. At your age, you are changing everyday. Love will come for you, but it's not something we can make happen just because we feel a certain way. If he doesn't seem interested in you, you may not be his type. We all went through this tough period. The great thing is, surprises are waiting for you, and could happen at anytime. Don't let this one incident get you down. (It's easy to give advice but not easy on you)
