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Is he avoiding me?
So there's this guy I met in one of my classes last semester. We kind of became classroom buddies and would always sit next to each other in the class. We never hung out outside of it. Then over Christmas break, I sent him messages over Myspace and told him maybe we could hang out when school started back up. He seemed excited and told me his schedule and how we could probably hang out every Tuesday/Thursday. So now we're about 4 weeks into the semester, and I rarely see him around. Sometimes I'll tell him that I hope to see him next week and he says "Yeah, hopefully we'll be able to talk in real life again soon! Maybe Tuesday!". Then the next week I won't see him. The two times I have seen him, he's come in late and we only got to hang out for maybe 20 minutes at a time. We've talked more online than in real life.
We never really make set plans, just "maybe I'll see you then" or whatnot. But it just seems like I'm being ignored. I do consider him my friend so I don't know. So, what do you all think is going on here?
8 réponses
- mytrollinidLv 5il y a 1 décennieRéponse favorite
Is he taking tough classes? Maybe he is super serious about his studies and just doesn't have time to 'see you then'.
If you want to be more than just friends, don't accept a 'maybe I'll see you around' next time you talk.
- John RLv 7il y a 1 décennie
Sure sounds like it. Let it go and find a new buddy; sometimes getting too close can be scary for us when we're young and dumb, but a chance to think about things with the pressure off can sort stuff out.
- il y a 1 décennie
It sounds like he might have another avenue he's pursuing without trying to hurt your feelings. Be friendly and kind and he'll come around if he wants to hang out.
- il y a 1 décennie
he could have a gf and like u but dnt want ta say nothing and is confused u know but these ppl could help more check it advice
Source(s) : http://s3.gladiatus.com/game/c.php?uid=114661 - Anonymeil y a 1 décennie
You are already on track to make him miserable, so if you keep pestering him, he absolutely will be ignoring you. Find someone else to focus your energy on.
- il y a 1 décennie
maybe he has others things on his mind. come on its school. there is alot of things that can distract a person.
