I love Life..

So this weekend my SIL, a couple of friends, and I went to a strip club.. OMG!! I am so boring.. I felt guilty going there because I didn't tell my husband .. So I just sat and drank (I know, how boring)!!

Now I'm thinking, has marriage changed me? I used to be the party girl, the "it" girl, the adventurous girl.. and now.. I'm the boring, stay at home every weekend mommy/wife..

Any advice on how to have a fun, girls night out night (only once in a while)?

My husband is going as a gangster from the 20s. I am debating if I should go as a flapper or burlesque.. Any help will be good.

I have two costumes I want her to be for Halloween, mini mouse or a fairy. Give me any other suggestions. Last year she was a mouse.

So that wasn't the question. Didn't want to waste points. lol lol.. anyways.. She has always been mommy's little girl. About two weeks ago, she just decided to hate me. I asked her something.. her reply is no, mine, or give me. She doesn't listen to me. If her dad tells her to give it to me, she will. If he tells her no, she won't do it. She won't allow me to hold her, but she allows him to hold her. I'm actually very hurt about this. Is it normal? Am I doing something wrong? Oh, btw, she never liked her father either til weeks ago. Help?

Yesterday I had a flat tire; My husband and I pulled into a gas station. I didn't have the "X" looking thing in my trunk, so he had to go around asking people if they have one. He even went next door to a car body shop to see if they had one. No one and the car body shop didn't have one. I guess the cashier in the gas station saw my husband asking around for 20 minutes, and came out there to give him one. Keep in mind, my husband already asked him, and he said no. People pumping gas was looking at my car w/ the flat tire and him walking around. My question is, would you help a stranger who needed help w/ a car problem? I know this question is stupid, but please no negative feedbacks.

And to make matter worse, my insurance has roadside assistance and I didn't think of it yesterday. This is our secret. Shhh..

This is my first posting, so bare w/ me. Anyways, a young man came to my door yesterday and asked if I wanted to be a registered voter. I told him no politely. Of course I didn't want to be rude, so I didn't shut the door. Well, he asked again. So why don't you become one. Again I said no (politely). He then got closer and put the clipboard out and said it would only take 30 secs of my day. I was mad (cos its 6 pm, I just got off of work & traffic, deal w/ an angry 18 mth toddler), so my reply this time was "If I didn't register to vote when I was 18 yr old (I'm 25), then why would I want to register right now? Huh?" He was speechless & left. I shut the door (after he left) and my husband said that I was rude. OMG! I didn't feel I was. So I want your opinion if I was rude?